I had a lovely (early) surprise birthday party last night over at Steve and Kevin's house.  The food was delicious.  There were balloons and presents.  All very festive including a delicious chocolate birthday cake with raspberry filling (prepared by Steven). 

My very first surprise birthday party!

Which leads me to today's Sunday Question:

George Bernard Shaw said, "Youth is wasted on the young."

What do you think he meant by that...and do you agree?

 


Comments

Sally

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 11:18:17

Just what he said. It is so very true. I see my skinny granddaughter, and I want to say to her"enjoy it while you can, because it isn't going to last. But on the other hand this generation seems to be well aware of how to eat,exercise etc. in order to stay that way. Then too, she probably looks at me and says
'not me"

 

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 15:33:34

1) See Sally's note above.

2) It means that yikes, there are things I would do better, more wisely, more effectively if I could go back with what I know now! I have damn few regrets. But the few I have, man, I could kick them in the nuts if I could go back!

3) It means that the rather limitless energy we have as younger humans begins to fade as we age, and we have to work harder at it. (See Sally's comment above.)

Erik

 

Hal

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 16:39:42

I think he may have been referring to the insight and wisdom and the 'I get it' aspects that our mature brains develop into. I've often wished it would be possible to remove my (late 40's) brain and stick it into my 18-year old body (skull). I guess that makes me a proponent of cloning?

 

Sally

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 19:33:20

Erik, I also








Erik, In thinking about it further, I too would taken more chances,not cared about " what will the neiighbors say", and in general enjoyed myself a whole lot more!!!






 

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 23:23:20

Right on Ms. Sally. Feel the same way. Way too concerned about what other folks thought of me. Still working on that one - yikes. :)

 

Mom#1

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 06:59:41

I think you're all right. On a personal note, I think that I got over trying to please mother. I still catch myself once in a while, asking if this action will please ME.
Now, speaking from Shaw's standpoint, with knowledge of his plays and immense biography and other writings, he spoke always and ever about himself because he was always, of necessity, the prime interest and rewardee of his life. He taught himself completely, so poor that he could not go to school, where they didn't teach him what he needed to know anyway. He taught himself to read music and to play from a score on his mother's piano. It was Richard Wagner! So after leaving Ireland, his mother and her lover amd his own job as a lowly clerk, when he was just a lad, he made his way to London where he educated himself at the British Museum and Library.
Again, knowing Shaw as I do, I believe he later in life thought of all the time he wasted in pursuing females. He considered marriage useless (his one affair, which may or not have been sexual) was with a married woman. He admired women's minds, but thought the act of sex useless too. And for them, that marriage mostly ruined their potential (read the preface to his play, Pygmalion, for instance. And by the way, Eliza marries Freddie, a completely useless man, and becomes the breadwinner. He stays home and minds the children, not that there is anything wrong with that). But reading this part of Shaw gives insight into his feelings on male-female relationship and purpose.
So my theory is, as to what Shaw meant by the questioned phrase, is that the kind of wisdom that allows us not to be deterred from purpose by our physical urges is attained only when we age. Take a look at his young people, with the exception of certain women: they are all frivolous, they are all SHAW!
But to take the phrase as we commonly do is great wisdom and comfort.

 

Mom #1

Mon, 29 Sep 2008 07:05:53

Further thoughts on growing up

My observation from the standpoint of old age is that my happiest elder (and younger) friends are those who are able to entertain themselves and be alone. Shaw loved to be with people, but in his political, critical and creative life craved solitude.

 

Laura

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:06:14

So Sally, you see it as a lament about the aging body and a comment about how young folks are naive when they think youth will last forever.

Did I get that right?

I clearly remember looking at older folks when I was in my twenties and saying, "not me." Boy, was I wrong!

 

Laura

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:08:24

Erik,

What things would you kick in the nuts?

 

Laura

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:10:32

Hal,

I'm with you in that I hear a component about "what I could do with the energy and vigor of youth if it were combined with my current level of wisdom/knowledge."

Speaking of cloning...if you want to transplant your brain into a "younger-you" body, you'd love my screenplay, "Blanks."

I'll dig it out for you.

 

Laura

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:13:09

Mom #1,

Thanks for the background on Shaw. It bolsters Hal's and my feeling that there was a sense of longing for the energy of youth in order to properly apply the advantages of maturity.

He was an interesting guy, eh?

 

Sally

Tue, 30 Sep 2008 10:19:42

Yes indeed, that is pretty much the way I see the quote. But remember, my point of view is OLD.

 



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